Troubled Teens Resources

Private boarding schools tend to produce different students than the public school system produces. Of course, much depends on the curriculum and the governing philosophy of the schools. Some progressive schools churn out many youths totally unequipped to deal with the realities of adult life, but quite suited for a career in Hollywood

On the other hand, those private and specialty schools that have a more traditional approach to education and youth turn out teenagers who are ready to take the next steps into responsible adulthood. Established and reputable troubled teen boarding schools are very intentional about turning out mature, self-directing teens.

Unfortunately,studies indicate that millions of teens entering their twenties are mentally still in high school.

“I think the early 20s are the new teenage years,” says Rea, 26, a college student studying to be a history teacher. “There are no parents telling them, ‘You can’t do this.’ It’s pretty much a free-for-all.”

That statement points to the gist of the problem. A twenty year old shouldn’t need a parent telling them that something is dangerous. The educational system is supposed to be training kids to a level of maturity that would make destructive drinking and drugging in college unacceptable.

In fact, there was a time when a teen would never take so lightly what a college education represents. Now it has largely become an excuse to extend the high school prom.

American society has taken great pains to prevent adolescents from the perils of foolhardy behavior, from zero-tolerance alcohol and drug programs to graduated drivers’ licenses to city curfews for youths, Mintz says.

If teens make mistakes, they often get a second chance. But in their 20s, society is less forgiving.

“It’s the 20s that are risky,” he says.”

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